happy couple...

Why do some couples stay happy together for a lifetime, while others are in conflict almost from the beginning?

Part of the answer is compatibility - making the initial choice of a partner with whom you share common values. Equally much, however, depends upon the choices each partner chooses to make during the relationship.

here are seven choices made by happy couples:
1. Trust: Suspicion and jealousy are the death knell of any relationship. If the other is going to cheat or otherwise dishonor the relationship, suspicion and jealousy will not prevent it, and such a relationship is fatally flawed in any case. Unwarranted suspicion and jealousy create misery in a surprising number of relationships. If you want to live happily, trust your partner completely. If they dishonor your trust, deal with the situation then. In the meanwhile, you will have been happy.
2. Open Communication: Tell the truth, tell the whole truth. If you didn't want to share your whole life with your partner, why are you together? If you make a mistake, admit it. If you have doubts, talk about them. Secrets and lies kill a relationship. With truth and openness anything is possible. Even if something is unforgivable, it is better to deal with it quickly.
3. Honoring the other's point-of-view: People disagree, couples disagree. Understanding that the two partners in a couple remain individuals is crucial to a happy relationship. Why would you expect that you and your partner should agree on everything? Honor that one of you is a Republican and the other a Democrat. Honor that one of you is a vegetarian and the other loves a great steak.
4. Self-Confidence: Co-dependence is another frequent cause of failed relationships. Happy couples know that they don't need each other. Each partner is a completely whole and valid individual who has entered into a voluntary partnership. Neither "owns" the other, nor "can't live without" the other. Each has their own interests and friends, as well as having mutual interests and friends.
5. Generosity: Greed and selfishness kill relationships. True love is generous in spirit. Mostly, generosity is not about material things, although that is also important. To have a happy relationship, be generous of your time, your love, and your attention.
6. Forgiveness: Resentments and thoughts of revenge and vengeance have no place in a happy relationship. Happy couples forgive each other completely for everything the other has ever done or failed to do - no exceptions.
7. Gratitude: Happy couples are continuously grateful for each other. Every day there are a myriad of reasons to be grateful for your partner. Find those reasons each day, and thank your partner every day.

long time no see...

hello everyone.....

hye.....

^--^

haha...

sound hepy rite???

huahaaa....

mestila i hepy sb bley spent time with my famili smpai la dh nk update my entry...

soe yer pmbca setia sy a.k.a my love, MR.AZ4...

yes i tgh bcuti...

jd sgt pemalas...

i admit this....

nk bgn pg kdg2 ssh...

pas sboh smbung tdo...

then akn dgr suara my mum jrit2 aroung 9 o'clock...

"syhhh mak, abis sume jiran dgr.... mlu tw sy..." keh3...

this is the last time cm 2 cz lg 2 ari dh nk lik hostel...

keep going as usual life as stdent...

so, i kna w8 up early.... no more loitering...

huhuhu.... again n again....

but...

saat yg plg i tgu is....

nk jpe my heartbeat laaarrr....

miss him damn much.... he3...

rndu nk hv time 2gether....

2 weeks xjpe rs cm lm sgt lak....

newey... xsbr dh nih...

byk nk ckp2 ngn die...

biar die ltih dgr sy bebel....

trma jew tw....

mwhxxxx....

sy hrp awk pn rndukn sy.....

dh la mcm dh byk lak 2lis....

jpe ag....

nyte....

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tired....huh...

hye blog...
he3... lately ari2 aku update kn,
he3...
bkn apa, keghairahan aku dtg tb2...
this entry belong 2 me n my fwen..
dr aku wat diploma smpailah wat degree skrg nih...
still da same...
no changes....
huhuhu... pity us.... tired of all this matters...
he3...
geram toi aku...
bab aku paling xska, dr mla duk kukum, smpailaaa ke unimap skrg nih,
ialahhh..... BAB TGU BUS... grm+boring..
t mla lh mlut aku nk mgomel mcm...
he3...
td jew... 2 jam aku ngn kengkawan tcongok kt kangar...
adeiii... skit ati kowt...
dh la ngntukk...
pns lak 1 hal ag...
uish... b++ skit ati aku...
cair dh m8 up, sunblock pn dh xda function ag dh...
ktiak nih xyah cite.. mcuk mSm daaa...
he3...
(sj gimik lbey)
asal ada bus bhenti, tkedek2 laaa kmi g tye..
"kg.y ka??"... "x,smpg.4"..
"kg.y ka??'...."x, kbg gajah...."
"kg.y ka???.... "x, pauh.."
adei...
mn dia....???
aleh2 kul 4 bwu ktowg nekbus kowt...
dr ku 2 tgu...

nek jew bus, haaaa kn....
xda nmpak rupa dh, tgkap lentok lew...
sdr2 jew dh smpai k.perlis...
he.....
ltih gilaaa....

aduhaiiii...bla laaa sume ni akn brakhir

sbr laaa wani oi.... sbar jg kwn2 sume

bpe sem jew ag

Ya Allah.... kuatkanlah semangat kmi, dan tingkatknlah kesabaran kami untuk mnempuh hari2 mndatang dgn pnuh ketabahan...

go forwad....

dear mr.az4....

sy tw, tym sy writing dis blog, u r studying there... i hope so... cz i owez trust u...
sy tw awk mmpu capai cita2 2....
awk mmpu jd yg terbaik...
awk ada sesuatu dlm diri, cma awk perlu bykkn bdoa...
insyaAllah...
doa sy sll utk awk...

awk igt x lg...

"ltk impian stinggi bintang, klo jth pn sgkut kt awn,

ltk ati ke dasar lautan, klu timbul pn tsgkut kt batu krg....."

igt kn....

time 2, hya kta 2 jew, jnji utk sm2 bjya, wlu x shebat mn kn....

mudah2an ada ruang utk kita......

sy taw awk mmpu, sb sy sll ykin ngn awk....
sy xkisah sapa pn awk, jgn mls2... jgn ikutkn perasaan...
seeking for a better life k...
hdup nih kdg2 xseindah yg kita impikan, tp sbnrnye ada kmnisan yg kdg2 kita xsdr...


Ya Allah...
teman sy...
buah ati sy...
mesra kmi pnwar duka...
rindu kmi mnmbah cinta..
rajuk kmi mmbuah ceria...
dia ketawa, sy gembira...
dia sayu, sy syahdu...
dia layu, sy pilu...
dia cemerlang sy gemilang...
rahmatilah kmi meniti usia...

msih ada lg hrpn utk kta... utk itu n ms dpn...

dapatkah sy mnjdi sumber kekutan dlm dri awk,

sprti awk tiupkn sgla kekuatan stiap kali sy merasa kcwa n myerah kalah...???

msih mmpu kh sy mnjdi tmpat awk bsndar dsaat awk lmah n mahu rebah??

mudah2an... InyaAllah...

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luluh...

heee...

sdh hmpir 12jam fikiran aku kusut, fikirkan khidupan, smpai nk tdo pn aku pning ag nih..
its no a big things pon....

tp ntah laaa, trasa mcm mnusuk kalbu, n akhirnya airmata pn bcucuran.. huwaaaa...

lepas satu.... satu....

ape suma nih....
tlg hntikan wat aku jd serabu...

apepn pd saat ni aku miss umah aku, the best place i ever live... sume ada kt c2....
but now, i need some theraphy.... really needs it... tp my personal DR... very bz.... pity him...


hmmm...
lemah kn aku...

aku perlukn seseorg saat nih...
need a warm shoulder...
btol aku xtpu...
nk cry puas2...
then nk dgr kata2 yg sptt nyer aku dgr....
buat aku tseyum....
:)
(dear cyg, i'll wait 4 u)

post aku ari sume emo2...

dh aku mmg x ok...

nk wat cmne...

klo xska...

shooooohhhh2...

bjuta blog ag kt web nih...

ok???

when the life is....

hi all...

i'm so sad now...
i did something horrible today ( i guess so)
i'm regretting it
stress sgt...
(is dt really my fault??? or slip of my tongue???)

napa yer kta sll biar emosi t8 control of mind n act???
kpda yg bkenaan sy mohon maaf sgt2...
i'm sorry 4 every harsh word i ever say...
i shouldnt say such thing 2 u..
sorry 4 letting my emotional control my mind...

sorry again.. i never meant it....

i jz wanna told u...

i didnt mean it...

i'm not shouted at u...

plz... believe me...

thx 4 hv a time with me... even 4 a while...

i really appreciate...

{kdg2 percakapan sy kasar, n wt sy x sdr, ada ati yg terluka}

..a person who needs ur forgiveness..